What To Expect At a Sikh Wedding

Here are a few things to keep in mind if you haven’t attended a Sikh Wedding.

What to Wear

  1. For the Ceremony at the Gurdwara:

    • Men: Traditional attire such as kurta-pajama or a suit. A head covering (like a handkerchief or turban) is required inside the Gurdwara.

    • Women: Traditional attire such as a salwar-kameez, saree, modest dress or a suit with pants. A head covering (like a scarf or dupatta) is required inside the Gurdwara.

    • Note: Shoes must be removed before entering the Gurdwara.

  2. For the Reception:

    • Men: Traditional Indian attire or formal Western attire.

    • Women: Traditional Indian attire such as a lehenga, saree, or evening gown.

Events

  1. Milni (Introduction of Families):

    • This is a pre-wedding ritual where the families of the bride and groom meet and exchange garlands.

    • It is a warm and welcoming ceremony that signifies the union of two families.

  2. Langar (Community Meal):

    • Before the ceremony, a vegetarian meal will be served.
    • Langar is a symbol of equality and community, so everyone sits together on the floor to eat.

  3. Anand Karaj (Wedding Ceremony):

    • This is the main wedding ceremony held at the Gurdwara (Sikh temple).

    • The ceremony involves singing of hymns, reading from the Guru Granth Sahib (Sikh holy book), and the couple walking around the holy book four times.

    • Please note that attendees will be seated on the floor during the ceremony, as this is a traditional practice in the Gurdwara. There will be some stools available for anyone who may find it difficult to sit on the floor. If you believe you will need a stool, please indicate so on the RSVP or contact the bride or groom.

  4. Reception:

    • The reception will follow the Anand Karaj, featuring music, dance, and a celebratory meal.